Friday, May 4, 2018

My Report on President George W. Bush By Joel Green

President George W. Bush
  President George Walker Bush was born July 6,1946 in New Haven, Connecticut to the 41st president George H. W. Bush and Barbara Bush (who recently passed away.) He was the first of the six children. His family then moved to Texas.
  During his school years his parents sent him to Phillips Academy in Andover, Massachussetts. It was tough being so far away, but he made it through. After graduation he attended Yale University where he studied history. While at both Phillips Academy and and Yale President Bush played a variety of sports: football, baseball, and basketball. The neat thing not many know is that he even was a cheerleader.
  After graduating from Yale in 1968 President George W. Bush joined the Texas Air National Guard. In 1970 he graduated as a lieutenant. While serving the next couple of years he worked for a Alabama politician campain, and worked with poor children. In 1973 He got an honorable discharge. After being discharged he went to Harvard Buisness School. He graduated in 1975, and went back to Texas.
  When he got back to Texas he worked as a landman in the oil buisness where he looked for land to purchase for a company he worked for. In 1977 President Bush started his own buisness called Arbusto Energy. He would later sell his company.
  In 1977 on November 5 he married his wife Laura Welch. What an amazing year for him. Starting his own company and then getting married. About four years later President Bush and his wife welcomed twin girls Barbara and Jenna. Many know Jenna now from her work on NBC for the Today Show. 
  President George W. Bush began his run in politics in 1978. He tried to run for US House of Representives, but he lost. In 1988 He helped run his father's campain for President. His father George H. W. Bush was elected President. Then President Bush set his eyes out for govenor of Texas in 1994 he won that election. While in office he improved public education. Then in 1998 he was reelected as govenor.
  Then came his run for President in 2000. He won the election and became the 43rd President of the United States of America when he beat Al Gore. January 20, 2001 he entered the office. What he didn't it would become a difficult year for any President. September 11, 2001 became the worst day in United States History that changed not just the United States, but the world. It was the day terriosts attack that would kill over 3,ooo people. After that day the President would spend days with workers and families of the fallen. Then in November 2001 he created the Department of Homeland Security, because of the deadly attack on our home soil. In 2002 President Bush created the No Child Left Behind Act. The following year in 2003 the Iraq War was started. He would also run again for President. He won again against John Kerry. He took the office again 2004. Again the US would have another disaster. This time Hurricane Katrina which destroyed much of the south.
  President George W. Bush to me was a tough President for dealing with so much problems during his time. I was not born when he was President most of his time in office, but to me he gave it his all. He seemed to be a President who dealt with things head on. A problem came up he dealt with it to his best ability. I may never be President but I learned so much from reading about him, and what my Mom has said. I learned never to give up, and when a problem comes up deal with it.
Written by, Joel Green

I read a book, but I lost my reference paper that I wrote it down on. We also used wikapedia.com, and pictures from google.com

My Mom again helped with finding and posting the pictures.

Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Homeschooling

 It has taken me a while to figure out how to write about why I am now homeschooling Joel. I have always wanted to homeschool since I was old enough to even think about having children. After Joel was born, and I found out that I could never have children I thought it was better to have him in school (truth is everyone said it would be better for him so he can have socialization). I put Joel in public school from Preschool to 2nd Grade. Joel was struggling with being himself, because he was getting bullied. Plus I really wanted him to have a Christian education while learning. There for I put Joel in a Christian school for third grade, and most of 4th grade until about 2 weeks ago. It was in the best interest of Joel. Plus the nice thing is Joel can go with me to my appointments in Omaha.
  Joel and I are actually enjoying doing homeschool. We have more freedom, he can learn at his pace (so, if he really doesn't understand something we can take time to go over it until he does.), and we can do different things to be included in his learning (cooking, going to the library, ect.). We are not just using books to learn from, but videos and shows on the internet or found on our Roku channels. Example: Every morning this week we start off with Bible teaching. Right now we are watching "The American Bible Challenge" that is on Netflix. In Science he is learning about the circulatory system. So, we are doing videos on YouTube. Joel is really loving it because the visual aides have helped him get better understanding instead of just reading. On nice days Joel loves to just sit outside to do some of his school work. He also loves doing school in his PJ's. Yesterday, we went to the library to check out books. He is wanting to do some reports on different things that he is studying (he may put some of his reports on here) for different subjects. Example: In History he is studying Europe region. So, he picked a Country and is doing a report on that subject.
 I plan on homeschooling year round, but we will take breaks here and there. For example the last week of June we will be at Weblo Camp. But, He will write a report on what he learned and did while he was there. We plan on taking some road trips this summer as well. Which we can include homeschooling as we travel (well, I always do something that includes learning like a science center or some museum). Joel will still play sports for Winterset as of right now. Now in the fall things will change up on our homeschooling. Joel will be taking Science and Band at the public school in the fall. I am so excited that he wants to play an instrument. 
 I also plan on being involved in homeschool groups, and doing other homeschool activities around the area. There is places that I know of in Des Moines that open their doors during the day for homeschool children to do. For example there is a place that is a gym that allows homeschool children to go do tumbling and things. I don't know when we will check it out but it is on our list to do. Many of our friends and family have also volunteered to help out with Joel's homeschooling (teaching life skills). 
  So, look for Joel's reports, and our homeschooling adventures!

Monday, April 16, 2018

Barnstormers Adventure Report by Joel (Mom helped with pictures)

 On Saturday, April 14, 2018 my Mom took me with a few others from my Cub Scout Pack 121 to Scout fun day with the Iowa Barnstormers. We got to do and afternoon learning, and so much more. So here is my report on my time at Wells Fargo Arena in DesMoines, Iowa. If you don't know who the Iowa Barnstormers let me tell you quickly. Iowa Barnstormers is an Indoor Arena Football team. They pad up just like regular football players, but the rules are a little different, the field is smaller, and so is the goal post. It is so awesome and fun to watch.
 First, was a learning session with the Barnstormers. They divided us into to groups. First, I learned how defensive half-back tackle (don't quote me) from #3 Jourdan Wickliffe. I had to run lines and intercept the ball. Second was what a wide receiver does from #14 Jonathan Duarte. He had us run and then we had to catch the ball. It was fun for me because I like to play wide receiver. Next, we learned how to kick from #19 Cody Barber. I was able to kick the ball between the goal into the net. Then we learned how to tackle. It was neat because I could take out my frustrations on the bag. Last they let us play some touch football with the other scouts.

 Next, came warm-ups and the game. During warm-up we were allowed to sit on the arena wall, and watch them warm up for their big game against Nebraska Danger. #1 Ryan Balentine sat right next to me for a few minutes, and asked if I was having a good time. Other players would come over give us high fives. Few even too selfies on their phones with us. One of them took a video of us sitting on the wall. It was so cool. I also watched as one of the players sons were helping with warm-ups before the game, and after half-time.
The game was awesome. It kept us on our toes. Barnstormers would lead, then the Danger, back and forth it went. The 2nd half of the game the Barnstormers showed who was boss like they always do in Iowa Fashion. They brought a storm of plays that took them to win 42-25. I watched and learned some awesome plays that could maybe help my football team in the fall. My favorite player BJ Butler did awesome on the field.
My Favorite player #56 BJ. Butler and Me
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After the game the Barnstormers and everyone come back out do autographs, and interact with fans. One thing that I noticed that I thought was so very special was the players that were fathers and had children there the first thing they did before signing or talking to fans was they picked up their children, hugged them, and made them feel so special. I was so happy to see that from them. I am a child without any father in my life. Those men are what Dads should be. No matter what they do with themselves their children and families are important to them like they should be. I told my Mom on the way home about it. I told her how they set and example. Some day when I play a sport or do something like they do, and if I have children I will want to treat them the same way. My father left me before I was even born so I don't know how a father should be, but those men showed me. Don't get me wrong my Mom is wonderful, because she is there for me, but also because she makes sure I see what true fathers should be like. Okay, back to the after the game. I took my football I got for Christmas from the Barnstormers with me so they all could sign it. There was one in particular I wanted and that was #56 B.J. Butler. I also wanted a picture with him again this year. I got it. I found out after I got home that he is a father, but his family lives far away, and so he is away from them. But, on his game shoes is his family. That is so neat. I cant wait to see him again. I also got an autograph from my favorite Storm Chaser Kiera. I had her sign my Barnstomers hat (the only one too).
Overall, the experience was so much fun. I was able to learn and have fun at the same time. It was because I am a Scout that I was able to take advantage of the opportunity that many boys my age will never get to do. They are not pro football players like Peyton Manning or Aaron Rodgers, but the Iowa Barnstormers are a group of men that set examples for boys and young men like me. They don't play in big stadiums with lots of people. They play in an arena in the center of Iowa blessing the hearts for the people that come if they are a bunch of cubs scouts to men dressed in weird outfits. Many are not from Iowa but they play for the heart of Iowa. I am proud to be a Iowa Barnstormers fan for life! Many also do not know they do other fun events than just Boy Scout Day. They have others as well. They also raise money for charities, and honor the armed men and women as well as our local heroes like police, paramedics, and firefighters. So, when you ask why I love the Iowa Barnstormers this is why. Thank you to the Iowa Barnstormers for letting us come, my Cubmaster Justin, and my Mom who just didn't take me but is also has a role in my Cub Scout Pack. I hope you enjoyed this report. Please give me feed back it.
Written by,
Joel Green


Sunday, April 15, 2018

Changing Times

  It has been so long since I have taken the time to write in our family blog. Things have kept us busy as usual. At the same time our family has been changing. We are still the two of us though. Well, we do have a new addition to our little family. In February we became owners of a little puppy. Joel named him Preston Joel Green. Preston is a beagle mix. He may be a stinker but he has brought so much joy into our lives. He keeps us on our toes. I am now out numbered in the household. We got Preston from our Aunt and Uncle. Joel had been begging for a puppy for years, and the time was finally right. So, this Mom gave into the little cute guy.
This last week was a change for us. Due to some things Joel is now being homeschooled. I am still new at this so my nerves are getting the best of me lately. I am still trying to learn where I can find my "ME TIME." At the same time it has been good for us to have this bonding through teaching him. Joel is enjoying doing school work outside when it is nice outside. We are using things we get to do as learning for our homeschool curriculum. Example yesterday he had scout night with the Barnstormers. Homeschooling will give us a little more freedom with his health lately (which I will talk about). My plans is to teach year round. He will do a grade per year. He will finish up 4th Grade the first week of June. We will take about a month off. He will be busy with ending baseball season, going to Weblo camp, and we will be going on vacation (he doesn't know it but I am going to be using it to be teaching him). He will also be working on his county and state fair projects (haha learning too that he doesn't know). Homeschooling also gives him ability to go with me to my appointments in Omaha instead of being stuck back home at school worrying about me. End of July we will start 5th Grade work (Oh my did I just say 5th grade). When regular school starts we will be dualed enrolled. Meaning he will still be homeschooled, but he will be going to Winterset School for a few things. He is planning on taking Band (he wants to play the trombone), and he wants to take a science class (I never liked science so that is more than okay with me). I am not going to go into the reasons why Joel is now being homeschooled. If you want to know you can personally contact me.
One reason we are doing homeschool is Joel has had a tough year battling health issues. He has been admitted several times this year for constipation where they had to do a clean out. This is not a fun process for him or anyone. It required them to put an NG tube down him through his nose into his stomach. They pumped golitly into his belly until he pooped everything out. It has taken up to 3 days for him. He has missed several days of school because of it. We had to play catch up. So, I was the one having to teach him. The last time we went (which is the picture besides this) we left late in the night, and didn't think about grabbing books that he had already. I just cared about getting him there, because he was in so much pain. Besides the hospital stays we were busy with testings (CF Sweat Test, Colonoscopy, Endoscopy, Barium Enema, labs, and x-rays) plus doctor visits. His decending colon is 3 times bigger than normal, and he has lots of nodules in his colon. We are working still on the best treatment to help him be back to where he was. This didn't start until October 2017. 
Even with all his health issues lately, he bound and determined to be as normal boy as he can. So, Baseball season is back in swing for us. They haven't had much field time due to the nasty Iowa weather (like today it is Snowing in middle of April). He is playing the minor league again this year for Winterset. He is on the Dark Grey team. He is really looking forward to learning from his new coaches, helping the younger boys, and playing with a few of his friends he doesn't see much since I placed him at GCA over a year ago. They are a bunch of great boys. I cant wait to see how this season plays out for Joel and the rest of them.
Trying to pin a 7th Grader
First Place
So, since Baseball season is going wrestling is basically over with. In a way. We are still going to do some learning. He is actually going to take a Freestyle wrestling clinic the next three Sundays. He is hoping to catch some Greco tournaments and some fun tournaments this spring and summer. Plus go to open gym as well. He works hard to get better. He knows he has to get in all the mat time he can. 
Joel beating his rival
But, Joel had a good season. He met a lot of his goals. Actually all but one. So, that is a lot to say. He even challenged himself to go above and beyond. Joel's one goal he did not achieve was to make it to state. He was super bummed about it, but he quickly turned it around, and said, "I improved in so many areas, but I have more areas to work on, it isn't my time yet, but one day Mom you will see me walk through those doors at Wells Fargo and take my place on a State Mat.
Districts
 Even if I don't place I can say I never gave up." This year he achieved the other goals. One was to place first at a tournament. Well, this year he took a the top of the podium. Next goal was to make sure he beat every girl that wrestled him. He did that twice!!! Then the next goal was to beat a boy he has tried for a couple of years now. Joel succeeded that as well. He and that boy has became friends over the years so it was a little bittersweet. Another goal was to beat a kid that was a state placer last year. Joel did 3 times. One of his last goals was to improve on the bottom. Joel learned some new techniques and he soared on them. I was so super proud of him this season. Then came him challenging himself. I really didn't know if he had it in him, but he did it. He lost the match, but he said it felt so good to just be beaten by a point when he almost had him pinned. Joel took on a 7th grader about 10 lbs heavier than him from a different school at a dual. In the first round Joel almost had him. He kept up with him the next two with the other boy winning by a point due to a reversal at the end. I was never more proud of him wrestling than that day, because he gave it all he had to prove how much he loved the sport.
Joel's Favorite Player 2nd year picture with him
Joel and others learning
Okay Back again to the current adventure. Yesterday evening and last night The Iowa Barnstormers had Scout Day! This was Joel's 2nd year. First they do a football clinic teaching the boys about physical fitness, and how to play football. Then they had pizza, after that watch the Barnstormers kick Nebraska Danger butt, and finally get some awesome autographs from the players and cheerleaders. Joel soaked in every moment he could I swear. He loves the clinic part because it,  helps his technique for the following football season. He took his football he got from them as a Christmas gift this year with him. He had all the players sign it. He said, my football will never be played again." It means the world to him. He looks up to the Barnstormers what true men are. Last night there were a few of the players that after the game the first thing they did was hold their children. Joel said, "Mom, someday I am going to play a sport like that, and I am going to to love my children like they do theirs." I will be honest my heart broke, and I wanted to tear up. I didn't though. Joel is growing up with out a Dad, but he sees how a Dad should be with so many around us. Yes, it wore me out by spending a whole evening and night like that, but it is worth it to see my son smile, and hearing him have so much fun (I wont say it was nice view to watch as a single Mom.). Thank you Iowa Barnstormers for investing in the lives of children in Iowa!!!
  Okay I want to say there will be time I will be using this blog for our homeschool things. So, Joel will be giving reports on here about what he is learning, and what he is doing. So, give some feed back when he it is from him, but remember he is 10!

Saturday, October 8, 2016

Keeping Busy Witn Adventures

  It has been a few months since I blogged about what Joel and I have been up to on our wild and crazy adventures. It has been a busy time these last few months in the life of the little Green family. We have loved what God has really done for us. We are truly blessed by God.
2nd at Rock Port, MO
Super Pee Wee State
  Wrestling season finally came to an end. Joel has a very outstanding year of wrestling. He was pushed to the max for sure. For an 8 year old and being a 2nd grader I was very proud of him. He never placed 1st at any tournaments, but he got many 2nd places, two 3rd places, and 0 4th places. He wrestled for Winterset's Top Dawg group. Meaning he travelled with the team to some dual meets. He had to wrestle boys from 2-6th grade. He won a few and lost a few. He didn't give up, kept his head held high, and he wanted more. Joel season came to an end in March at the Iowa Super Pee Wee State tournament. He did not place in the TOP 8, but he was a winner in my book for just going, and doing his best. He was sad that the season finally came to an end. He has a fun off season tournament coming up the first weekend in June.
  The first part of March Joel had his 2nd grade spring concert. I will say it was better than last years concert. Wished they would of had a better song selection. As my son said, "I hate preschool songs." He wishes it would of been more challenging. For only getting 1 concert a year I would expect more as well, but it was fun to watch the children sing and dance this year. I really wish that his school did a winter concert. With being such a big school, and only so much space for seating I know why they do by grade.
Joel's Pinewood Derby Car
  After the concert we then had Pinewood Derby for Cub Scouts. This year has been different with Cub Scouts. I have taken on a leadership role for Joel's den. It has been exciting for sure. So, this year I didnt sit in the stands to watch the Pinewood Derby. I got to be closer and next to Joel as his car came down the track. His car was faster than last year, but it didn't advanced. Atleast he tried. That is what counted the most. He did walk away with Shinest Paint Job. I thought he should of got most unique, but heck we will take it.
 With March also brought SPRING BREAK for Joel. Which this meant Spring Vacation. Which this means time to be with family in Arkansas. We love spending time with them. Spring is so much fun down there. Joel and I really enjoyed our time this year for our spring vacation. We stayed pretty busy, had fun doing different things, and most of all we got to spend Easter with our family down there. It had been since Joel was little over one that we had celebrated Easter with our family that lives down there. It is hard being away from them at holidays. So, Easter was really memoriable for us. 
  While we were down there this year Joel and his Papa Rick worked on projects together. Joel wanted to learn how to make things. So, quality MAN time it was. Joel and his Papa made a bird house and a bird feeder together. Joel was so thrilled that he got to use a electric sander. He felt like a man he said. The two worked for days on the project. The finish products are actually in my front yard under our livingroom window. I am so proud of what he accomplished with his Papa. The next project of the two was coloring Easter Eggs together. It was so fun watching those two. They had fun for sure. I am so glad that they had fun, and time bonding doing things that they love.
 Joel, our grandparents, and myself went to Hot Springs for Grandpa's appointment while we were there. We decided to take Joel somewhere fun, but at the sametime learning. We decided to go to the Science Center. It was really cool. All four of us had so much fun. It is for all ages for sure. We spent close to 3 hours there. We didn't even do everything there. It was fun watching Joel and our grandparents interact and have fun learning about science. Joel learned about caves, beatles, mountain formations, knetic energy, and so much more. The also had an area outside that was enjoyable. They had walk area. They had an skywalk area that had a rope bridge, and rope bowl to play for the kids. I was so nervous with it being so high off the ground. It was something we will always cherish, and never forget for sure. 









Saturday, January 23, 2016

Through The Eyes of A Mom!

Joel and I watching Iowa Hawkeyes wrestle in 2015
  They say that boys dominate wrestling. Which is so true, but girls are coming in their own. Really women have been involved. Just in the forms of "Wrestling Moms." Wrestling Mom's play such a key role. Some may call us "Crazy," but really we are the most toughest, strongest, and the most caring Moms you can ever meet. As our wrestlers are on them mat so is our hearts.
Joel in 2012
  My little man started at the age of 4 in wrestling. He needed an outlet, and something to use is stored up enegy that little boys have in the winter time. There really isn't much for 4 year old to do with the winter time besides play in the snow, or stay inside the house. Even though my son loved playing in the snow. It just wasn't enough. He needed something productive, and something that gave him a since of accomplishment. So, one day someone suggested that I put him in Pee Wee wrestling. I will tell the truth the first thought through my mind was, "no way in the heck will I put him in a sport of that kind." I had heard so many stories over the years about the sport of wrestling (the dieting, the sicknesses, and injuries).  I thought how would I put my young son in a sport that I really didn't approve of, but eventually I gave in, and let him try. It was the best choice that I have ever made.
Joel at his first practice in 2012
 I still remember my son's first practice 4 seasons ago. My heart I swear stop beating as I watched him practice. My son went from this innocent little one, to a brave little boy. Watching him that first practice was so enjoyable as he had fun with other boys his age, and learning from some neat guys that were willing to pass their knowledge on to these tiny boys. I had the greatest enjoyment after that first practice hearing my son say, "Mommy can I do it again, I had so much fun," as he smiled those pearly whites, as sweat run down his face. So, I knew right then I knew it was time to put down my defenses, and let my son decide if he wanted to stick with it or not for himself. 
Joel at his first tournment in 2012 in Martensdale
  I still remember when he took to the mat the first time at his first tournament. My heart raced I didn't know if it was adreniline, or if it was fear for my son. I did have tears in my eyes as I worried what would happen to my son. As I watched him wrestle the first time I couldn't believe what was going on right before my eyes. Before his first match he was smiles and giggles. He gets on the mat his smile turns into a look of determination. I was probably one of the loudest Mom's, but I didn't care, because my baby was wrestling. As I watch him it was as if I felt every move with him. He lost every match that day, but he was happy he didn't give up. 
Joel pinning a Kid at Creston 2016
 Since that first tournament match of his wrestling career years ago, I have changed in how I look at wrestling, but not how I look at my son as he wrestles (because that has always remained). I also don't get crazy loud as I once did. I am loud enough my son hears me as he wrestles. It is cute because he says that even with all the cheering, and things he can still hear my voice. I asked how he hears my voice over all the madness. He says, "Mommy, only I know your loving voice. I tune out the other noice and concentrate on yours, unless if my coach is there." Even a voice from a Mom makes a wrestler know that he is so important, and supportive. A Mom is the wrestler's #1 one cheerleader. To a "Wrestling Mom" the sport of wrestling means more to us than just "Singlet Washing," "Bracket Checking,"  "Picture Taking," and things. The sport of wrestling to a "Wrestling Mom" means the loves of our lives is doing something they love, and our hearts are with them.
Joel Nov. 2012 with that Joel look at Waukee 1st year of wrestling
  Over the years I have watched my son grow in the sport of wrestling. He is no longer that tiny little boy, but a young man that is finding his groove in the sport. Everyone once in a while over the years I still get that little glimpse of his young silliness as he does a big boy sport. I see him give me a smile, or even a thumbs up just to let me know everything is going to be fine. He still takes a moment out for his Mom before each match, and after each match I am ready for him to be in my arms for a huge hug.
  I watched the times he struggles on the mat with strong opponets. I see in his face as he grimices in pain, and figuring how he will get out of a hold. I keep telling him he can do it, and don't give up. There is a part of me that wants to take his place, but I know he has to do it on his own. I am there on the side of the mat waiting for open arms to hold him, and tell him how proud I am of him for just giving it his best, and not giving up. 
Joel getting his hand raised at Creston 2016 after a pin.
 I watch intently all the time really. When my son wrestles a match and he is doing well in I still continue to encourage him to give it a little more. I watch as he is able to land a move, or even pin an opponet. When he gets his hand raised at the completion of a match. I watch as a smile comes on the face of my son. Seeing his face light up of feeling of accomplishent of a good job is such a great feeling for myself. I watch as he shakes the opponets hand, tell him a good job as well or even keep your chin up if they cry, and then shakes the opponets coach or parents hand. Then he runs to my arms that are waiting for him. I tell him how proud I am of him. He doesn't gloat about winning against an opponet. Instead he will tell me he learned something from them, or I needed that challenge to make me work harder. 
  So, I have wiped away tears when my son has cried in pain, I've wiped sweat from his face after a hard workout preparing, I've bandage owies, I have been my son's practice dummy when he wants to practice at home or before a tournament, I still tie his shoe laces, and I have iced him down after wrestling and dealing with growing pains. To me it is all worth it, because I'm a "Wrestling Mom." I love wrestling, because my son loves wrestling.
Creston 2nd Place 2016
  I've watch wrestling change my boy from a quiet, shy boy that had a hard time accepting loss; to a boy that makes friends from different schools, cheers just as loud as his Momma, and that accepts being defeated. My son has gained self-esteem, learning that a loss doesn't make you a loser it makes you learner to know what to do the next time, and he knows that a win does make you a winner; but a striver to continue learning as well. He is becoming a young man before my eyes. I have wrestling to thank for that. I am proud to say I am glad that someone suggested I put my son in wrestling. 
  My son knows he is not the most experience wrestler, but he gives his all. He improves every time he is on the mat rather it be practice or tournament. I see him falling more and more with the sport as he learns more moves, and get better on the ones he already knows. 
  So, the next you here the phrase "Wrestling Mom," remember we are more than just crazy ladies screaming for their children. We are just like any other Moms that are proud of their children doing a sport. Yes, we are loud; yes, we run between mats; yes, we take hundreds of pictures; we have to wash a singlet ALL the time, but we will always do it no matter what, because it means the world to our children.
Bedford 2nd Place 2016
  I know someday things will changes as my son ages from Pee Wee wrestling to wrestling in junior high, high school, and maybe even college. All I have to say is as long as my son choses to wrestle I am going to be there for him. I will be his #1 cheerleader, and he will be my #1 wrestler. He may get to the point he wont come give me a hug after a match, but he will know that I am there. I can see it now he will still look up in the stands where ever I am, and give me that Joel look he has given me since that first tournament match. The look of he will be just fine, and that he loves me.








Friday, January 1, 2016

Saying Bye to Another Year

 It seems like 2015 just started, but it was 364 days ago. It went by so fast. It was hear and gone right before our eyes.
  Joel and I were really blessed with a wonderful year together. Life brought us so much joy and excitement this year. There were changes that were to the good, and not so good (but we made them turn into good, because we knew it was God's plan). Maybe that is why we were so blessed was because we allowed God to be the center of our home, and in our lives. We did so much more than we expected this year. It was awesome journey adventurous year.
  January began as usual with family and friends bringing in the new year. Usually with in a day or two Joel and I are at mat side for a wrestling tournament. Last year Joel wrestled for WCV instead of Winterset. He loved it there, and misses it there. Last year he wrestled at the Winterset home tournament. He shocked us as he tied for first, but since it came down to points he took 2nd. I was so proud of him.
 February came celebrations. Joel helped me welcome my 35th birthday (I am not shy about my age). It was so much fun with him. Also with February we were busy with Cub Scouts. We had the Blue and Gold banquet. Also we took a trip with the Tiger Cubs to Waukee Bowling Alley. The boys had so much fun. The boys took on the adults. We won one and the boys won one. It was so good to watch Joel interact with other boys as the had so much fun scheming how to bowl a certain way to beat the adults. They even were stealing our balls.
  March brought the fun as spring arrived for us. It also brought the fun of the annual Cub Scout Pinewood Derby. Joel came up with the design and constructed it with the help of his Uncles. His Mommy helped a little as well. Joel's car did not do so well. It basically got last in every heat he was in. At first he was sad, but he still came out a winner. He took home two awards "Most Decals", and "Most Scout Spirit." In the end he said it was a blast.
Joel at Table Rock Lake
 Also in March brought our annual Spring break trip to Arkansas. We love spending time with our family. Grandpa, Grandma, and my Dad enjoyed spending time with us for a week. During that week we had fun, but we worked on many of Joel's Cub Scout things. Joel learned how to sew on various types of buttons with his Grandma. He took many pictures over the week of various things like the mountains, lakes, and important places.
On the way home we took a different route with my Dad. We decided to go through Branson, MO (where we stayed the night). We did free/ very cheap things, but had so much fun. The last time Joel and I went he was 2 almost 3. Joel enjoyed seeing Table Rock Lake, riding the Trolley Car around Branson Landing. We also stopped at Springfield, MO and enjoyed the Bass Pro Shop.
  In April we had showers of blessings. We celebrated our Risen Savior on Easter at church with our church family. Joel looked so handsome in his Easter outfit as usually. I really don't care how much money I have I will always get my son a nice Easter suit. In April Joel also had his 1st Grade Spring Concert. He did so well. It was a joy to see me son sing and
talk. April also meant spring sport which would mean no other than soccer. Joel did very well. He still was getting use to U8 rules being different than U6. He got to be on the same team as a few of his friends. Joel got the biggest joy in his life when he got to meet Senator Joni Ernst during a event which he attended for Cub Scouts. I think he was on cloud nine to meet such an important person to the state that he lives in.
 May was the biggest "Catch" (get it catch? LOL) of the year for us. We were so busy. Joel and I decided this year we would do more relaxing over the spring and summer as we spent time together. One of the things he asked was to go fishing together. So, I caved and got a fishing licenses (sometimes a Mom has to get dirty). Joel caught some, and so did I. Joel was the proudest when he caught the trout. Okay I was really proud myself. May also brought the award ceremony for the year of Cub Scouts. Joel officially earned his Tiger badge, and received his many belt loops and acheivements he had done. It was such a joy to watch Joel blossom through scouting. It really helped him learn and grow to be such a wonderful young man for the future. I'm glad he continued. Joel also took his first lesson in shooting a bow from his Uncle. Joel caught on fast, and really loves shooting a bow. He wants to someday go hunting with his own bow.

  June brought warmer days. Which in return meant POOL TIME. Joel started it off at a pool party in Salina, Kansas visiting our family there. Joel had such a blast playing with his cousins, taking about the Vetnam war with his Great-Uncle, and even going to see Dwight D. Eisenhower museum with his family. It was so great to spend time celebrating our Uncle's 70th birthday. June also meant Swim Lessons when we got back to Iowa. Joel did very well again this year. He is set for Level 3 this summer.
Oh, we can not forget Joel's trip to his very first Cub Scout camp at Camp Akalea. Thank you to his Uncle for stepping in and taking him for the day and over night. Those two had so much fun, but were exhausted when they got home. Joel's favorite he says all the time was shooting the bow. Even proving people wrong that he could shoot an adult size bow, and hit the target (he hit the bullseye in fact). When he puts his mind to something he is going to acheive it, or do his best atleast.
 July was started with celebrating on the 4th with family and friends. Joel had so much fun playing with kids his age. I dont think we made it 5 minutes on the way home before he conked out. Seeing my son have so much fun celebrating life as an American is awesome. He is proud to be an American. He is sad though that men and women have died so he could live in a country that right now he has the freedom to be a Christian. He prays for the men and women and their families that are still fighting for our freedom.
   August was here before we knew it. It meant our last hurrahs before Joel started school again. This year August meant so much to us. We got to celebrate our Grandpa's 80th birthday in Arkansas with him, and our family. It was a lot of planning for it. His birthday party didn't go as planned, but it worked out. It was hard on me this time going to Arkansas, because we ended up driving (which was not planned at first), but we made it. We stopped in Missouri on our way down. We had to leave after Grandpa's party to drive part way home (thank goodness for having relatives in Northern Arkansas. While we were there we did get to enjoy different things. Joel and I went to the rodeo. It was Joel's first time. He did the Mutton Busting, and the Cow Scramble. We both had such a blast. Yes we did not get back to our Grandparents house until almost midnight. Good thing I was getting use to where everything was in Mena.
 August also meant Iowa State Fair!!! It is our family tradition to go. It is just a must. We may not do, see, or eat all the elaborate things that are there to do, but we enjoy ourselves. This year one of the highlights was Joel begged to take a ride on the Skylift. Good thing neither one of us are bothered by heights. It was good to spend the last summer outing together just the two of us. This also meant at the end of the fair week school started. I was sad that summer flew so fast, but we made some awesome memories. It meant school time. Joel started 2nd grade this year. I can not believe it still that I have a 2nd Grader. Time has flown by so fast. So with his backpack, and a sack lunch he took off. I still shed a few tears as he go on that yellow bus, but I quickly wiped the tears off my face, and met him at the line to go into the school. Last hugs before he started his year of school.
 Septmeber brought a new exciting adventure for us. Joel started Flag Football. He wanted to give it a try. He loved it despite having to be on a team called the CYCLONES (It wasn't Iowa State Cyclones, but to him it was close enough. I can't help it I have raised a die hard Iowa Hawkeye fan!!!) He decided to give soccer a rest for one season, but going to do it again in the spring he says. It was a lot of fun to watch too. Joel also started another year of Cub Scouts as a Wolf Scout. He loves Cub Scouts so much. I am really glad about that too. It is fun to watch him enjoy extra things outside of school and home.
  October is such a wonderful month. It is the month that Joel was born. My sweet young man turned 8 this year. WOW!!! He has brought so much joy and love into my life. I can't imagine my life without him. His laugh and smile is so contagious. He is so much fun. He shared his birthday with a new friend. So, his birthday week was busy. As usual I went and ate lunch with him, and his new friend with his class as well. I bought a cupcake cake for the boys to share with their class. Joel said he wanted to include his friend on his cake. I couldn't say no to the birthday boy. Joel had a wonderful birthday being with his family and a few close buddies. October also brought Halloween. So it meant costume. This year Joel decided to go as a Zombie Clown. Usually we do a theme together, but nope not this year. This Mom is not into the scary things. He is and I was okay with a Zombie Clown.
November brought not only so much to be thankful for, but some new first adventures on Joel's and my journey. Joel had been wanting to see what it was like to go hunting. So, one of our cousins agreed to take him. I will be truthful this Momma was nervous the whole time he was gone, but I knew he was in good hands. Joel loved it very much, and can't wait to do it again. Yep, he wants to do it again. They didn't get close enough to one to shoot the bow, but he got to see some deer in their habitats. So, hopefully he will get one the next time. 
Us watching the Iowa Hawkeyes
Also in Novemeber Joel and I got to do something that we never dreamed of. It was a first for the both of us. Joel got two free tickets to go see the Iowa Hawkeyes wrestle at Carver Hawkeye Arena in Iowa City for the whole day. Neither one of us had been to see any of the Iowa Hawkeyes in action. It was a dream come true for the both of us. We enjoyed watching the Iowa Hawkeyes win against all the teams at their dual, making memories, and being snowed in over night at a hotel watching tv and eating Mexican. What more could a Mom and her son ask for??? NOTHING!!!
Joel Pinning a Guy!
 Before we knew it was December. Which meant Christmas, family time, and so much more. December meant wrestling was in full gear. Practices and tournaments left and right. Due to winter weather, and not really having all weather tires (okay 3 out of the 4 tires are the same ones we had when we got the car. Shhh... don't tell our Grandpa), we decided that it was best to not travel at night to and from Stuart for wrestling this year. Joel really misses his coaches there at WCV. He says he may be at Winterset, but his heart is with WCV Mat Pack. He is doing okay at Winterset though. So, far Joel has went to two tournaments he has had 3 pins this year, 1 win by points, and 2 losses. So, so far two 2nd places. We go to another tournament in a day. Lets see how he does on his home turf. Joel and I had a wonderful Christmas together, and a wonderful Christmas break together. He got to watch a couple of dogs for some people. He did a great job! We enjoyed some family time as we were snowed in. We also took advantage of making some homemade snow ice cream. We cant wait for more snow to make more. 

  Last but not least this year I am proud of my son. He has learned to be selfless. He has taking on the love of caring about others that are less fortunate that himself. This year our church has had a passion for the homeless of Iowa. Right now our focus has been in Des Moines. Joel for his birthday asked people from our church attending his birthday to bring new socks for homeless children. He has went through his books at home, and is going to donate books to one of the homeless shelters with children. He has got his Wolf den also helping out with winter stuff for the homeless children. Twice now he has went with our young adult group from church to feed the homeless, and take them things. I am blessed that he is a child of God, and lives to do the will of the Lord of loving others.
 May 2016 bring much adventures to your own journeys. I know Joel and I are looking forward to another year full this coming year. We just know that no matter what God has it all planned out!!!